¡Viva México! Carta # 3
¡HOLA FaMiLiA!
SOOOO today was a much more enjoyable P-day ha, wow. We actually did our laundry this week...........
2 things this week:
1- I finally learned my lesson: wear the ugly, dummie lookin' poncho... holy cow, the rains here are crazy. and i'ts on the clock, literally between 2-4 there is a 30-40 minute rain storm, and I mean like hurricane steezzz! They are soo powerful.
2- When I knock on doors, I can't do the classic. beeep, beeep, bep, bep, beeeeeep ---------- beeeeep beeeeeeeep! You know, that classic honk mom does all the time?? In mexico, its bad, my comp got mad at me for doing it, it means something bad, I don't know what.. haha.
Soooo, I thought I would actually talk about my area, Brisas. I´ve been here for 2 weeks now and still get lost in the streets ha, it's kinda confusing, and without the mountains, I don't know which way is east, north, west of south! I'm just starting to get a feel for it.
So Brisas is an older part of town. all the houses are cement, probably built in like the 30's or so. there are alot of older, strong catholic people in our area, and some areas, its every door we knock. It's rough ha. My ward has about 80 people in it, our chapel, or ¨capilla¨ is tiny and the most ghetto one is Merida! but it's tight, its unique, it's not the general ¨cookie cutter chapel¨ they have everywhere else.
We don't have bikes because the streets aren't very bike-friendly and the drivers here are crazy. So we either have to walk or take the bus, which I hate, my companion doesn't like to walk and we take the bus everywhere at 6 pesos a trip like 10-16 times a day, which takes like half our money! haha. When I'm the Papa, or senior comp, we´re walking EVERYWHERE ha.
We can't drink Coke.....and I think we are the only 2 people in Merida that don't (other than the other missionaries) ha. If Pres Salinas had the chance to write the word of wisdom, Coke would be in it. And I'm not a pop person but at every meal, the members always have coke for them and a strawberry fanta drink for us without fail... I hate that drink ha. But whatevs. The Spanish is sooooo rough- there are on and off days with it and it is really discouraging and super frustrating sometimes. I get so annoyed not being able to understand. Then sometimes it comes and I can understand. But for the most part, it is still hard. I'm trying something new this week, so we´ll see if it works!
My companion: his name is Elder Chavez, de Oaxaca. He's alright-- He's a great teacher, I wish he were a little more patient with me, but we´re chill now, it was rough for a bit. Funny thing, he wants 13 kids and want to be a dentist! He told me that before I told him about my family—weird, huh?? He´s Dad-- is Mexican form!! But not at the same time!~ haha
OK the teaching, it's going good. We had 4 investigators at church this week, 3 for the first time! It's a family, 1 mom, 2 kids, 15 year old girl and 21 year old boy, they are my favorite people to teach. I look forward to their lessons. We teach them tomorrow again and gonna hopefully we will commit them to a baptism in 2 weeks after they have been to church at least 3 times. The other, Mayra, this was her second time at church, and we have a baptismal date set for her on the 17th! but she is being weird, she doesn't want to until the beginning of Novemeber....because it's her birthday...? I don't know, that's 2 months away. So more info next week.
Funny story: so we were on our way to visit a 90 year man Gustavo ha, hes sooo tight. wayyyy old, he's Catholic and won't be baptized-- the missionaries have been visiting him for over a year ha, but he likes us to visit, so we sing him hymns. Anyways, on our way, a lady came out of her house and called us over. Her 15 year old son had questions about religion, and she wasn't prepared to answer them, so we made an appointment for the next day. Turns out their family is atheist. And when we started teaching, the 15 asked ¨so, is god a man or a woman?¨ .... and ¨did Adam and Eve have a belly button?¨... haha! it was like a joke, Chavez didn't know how to answer them cause it was the first time we´d been asked questions like that ha. We obviously could tell he had looked up online some stuff about the Mormons, probably anti stuff, and was bringing it up. He did visit the new. www.mormon.org and stuff. anyways, Chavez said he had never had a lesson like that haha. You don't run into an athiest much in Mexico ha!
Q´s to answer.
1. What is your apartment like?
Here's a google map link. If you go to street view, there are 3 cars, 1 the first there a silver nissan with a guy looking in his trunk or something, then there is another silver car and then a black one-- mine is the house where the black one is in front of, with the big green tree (and orange (fruit) tree! ripe in like 6 weeks, I'm stoked) and trash on the fence to the drive way gate, and white with a green strip on top. I applaud google, I didn't think they´d have it on street view!
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=20.982603,-89.588093&num=1&vpsrc=0&sll=20.985102,-89.613867&sspn=0.025122,0.062567&ie=UTF8&z=18
It's way tight, It's made for 4 missionaries and was last transfer, but now there is only me and Chavez. The only things are...(there's a lot actually)
- we don't have a sink because an elder broke it.
- our toilet... when there is no water pressure, which is a lot, especially after we shower, we have to put water in the toilet to flush it.
- our shower, haha, it reminds me of the movie ¨Holes¨ that line that says ¨the shower´s only got one knob because there is only 1 temperature: cold!¨ haha it is cold, but it feels good. if it's a sunny day, its luke warm. Our water is in a tank up on the roof that gets heated by the sun and it uses gravity for the water pressure. But if its rainy, it's a cold shower that night.
- It was filthy, but we actually DEEP cleaned it this morning, so its good! awww, my comp taught me some stuff and gave me grief because he could tell I had a cleaning lady growing up... the only thing I could say is ¨they are gringas¨-- he thought they´d be Mexicans
- its hot, we have a A-C but it takes all our energy and stuff. and its broken, i guess? i dont know, we´ve never used it.
overall though, I really like my apartment.
2. What is your compaion's name and where is he from in Mexico. What is he like? Is he a hard worker?
answered that somewhere else ha
3. What is your daily schedule? Will you usually write on Mondays?
yes, every Monday. Last p-day I was sick in the morning so I was in bed for a while then we had stuff all day and I didn't even get to do laundry.
4. Have you taught any lessons?
yes ha, there's alot.
5. Are you getting our letters and when do you get DEAR ELDER STUFF?
I haven't received anything yet, but I might tonight, we get mail from the misson home every Monday night, and I didn't get any last week. we´ll see.
I use the picture of our family every day at least once, sometimes more-- thanks for that. Also, the picture of Dad and Emily at the temple and some other pictures at the temple when we talk about how at temples we can be sealed to our families, its perfect. Could you guys email me a picture of the slc temple? I need one and I can stick it on my card and print it out here.
Well my new motto is from my companion after trying some of the nastiest candy I've ever had ha! Why do Mexicans love chilly soo much, even enough to put it in their candy, or dulces? haha my new motto is , ¨YOU ARE IN MEXICO—ENJOY IT!.-- in broken English, of course! I laughed sooo hard. but I figured I might as well enjoy these candies, the humidity, bein´ a gringo, 6:30 mornings, marathon days, restless nights, dirty hands, cold showers, mom-less cooking, and even sleeping in a hammock, cause this is my life for 2 years :)
By the way, good news! I bought a new hammock from my bishop! I get it tonight, so I haven't tried it yet! I hope it's more comfy.
Word of the day:
¡Cuídense! - which means- ¡take care!
Love you Fam,
Elder Connolly