Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Letter #6 from Mexico

 

 

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Mexico #6 Good times just keep on Rollin´ ...

HOLAAA FAAMILIA!!!!

Ok.... its safe to now say this because I'm not the only one thinkin' it..... If I knew what I know now and I got my call to Boise Idaho, I'd be SOOOO down... haha!

On Wednesday I had to go get a new Visa, so I got to see all of my generation again from the MTC. It was sooo fun! We have all been here for a month now and talking to them was just hysterical! When I first got here,  I wanted so bad to go outside of Merida, like to a pueblo, and the first day when I got my assignment to Merida, I am not gonna lie, I was a little disappointed, and I was a little jealous of the others that went to Vaca and Tulum and wherev. But seeing them on Wednesday, it made me be thankful for where I am... haha. I'm still way excited to get to Pueblo or a poor jungle place, but I'm actually glad I started in Merida where Walmart and other places are so I can adjust a bit with the food.

So, anyway, onto the week. OOWOW! , this keyboard Is so bad. the ¨a¨ ¨i¨ and ¨w¨ button don't work half the time, so sorry if there are mistakes—I'm not gonna fix them anymore!

Answer the Q´s...

1.  How are the lessons going--?

Pretty good, wow, we had a ton of cancelations this week, it was a bummer, some days we didn't teach 1 lesson... but others we found a lot of people. We focused on contacting these this week, with a goal of 103 contacts. We were well short of it, but it still helps to set a high goal. It is motivating, and we got a few new investigators from it.

2.  Spiritual Experience of the week

My spiritual experience of the week is with a man named Jorge-- we met him on the sidewalk as he was cleaning his motorcycle, and we talked to him for about an hour. He has a family, a wife and 2  kids, but after talking to him for a bit, he showed us picture of his girlfriend... he has a lot of chastity problems.....  I think this was probably the best lesson I have taught on my mission so far. I can't remember everything I said, but I used 4 pictures:  the pic of our fam, the pic of mom and dad, the pic of Em at the temple and the pic of the Merida temple. I was pulling stuff out of nowhere, the spirit was there and who would have thought my best lesson would be a law of chastity lesson. If I had more time, I'd write more. It's all in my journal-- by the way,  I finished my first journal last night-- onto my 2nd one tonight!  But it as a really cool experience!!

3.  Language coming better?
Way good, I am coming along. Some people say I'm learning fast, and others say no-- so I don't know how to  gauge it. But finally I have an ear for hearing everything, just now how to learn the words. It is hard to explain, but it kinda just clicked this past week.

4.  Getting used to your new Hammock?  and are you sleeping well?
Yes ha! and I used my sheets I brought with me last night as a pillow! Oh my! I slept sooo much better! I'm starting to figure it all out. I love hammocks ;)

5.  Do you take those Phillips colon health capsules?  Do you still get sick?
No, on the way here, the bottle opened, not only those, but alllllll of my pills, everything... so I don't have pills...that are clean.  I saved what I could but the Phillips ones were all smashed in my bags on the plane ride here. It's ok, I don't need pills. I've only taken 2 pills my whole time here, and they are the ones the members gave me. If Mexicans are fine,I' ll be fne. I pray for my health every time I pray.  I'll be fine.

6.  Did you say you will be in the same apartment till Feb?
Well I guess you never know-- the elder before me was here for 5 transfers, 7.5 months, or who knows, I could be out of here in November, who knows? My bet though is February, that's at 4 transfers, but could be 5 as well.

1.  I called Mr. Mac about your back pack and they will replace or fix it--They need to know what is wrong--exactly--it would be good to take a picture so I can show them.---Make it look broken and even write on it to explain.  I will see if they will give me a new one.

GOOD, they should give a new one, and pay for the shipping to get it here.... another elder has the same backpack and his is broken too. It is just the strap hook that you connect to the backpack. It is busted. It still hooks but it falls off, I've gotten used to it, but it's just a little things that is so annoying...

2.  Just get a Costco or Sams Club there--it will cost that much here.
Ok, sounds good!


Well I am finally figuring out the addresses system here in Mexico. It is really weird... sooo if SLC had it, each neighborhood would have their own street numbers. They are called colonias. so in my area we have 10 colonias, and when we have an address, we have to go to the colonia, or neighborhood, then go to the street number, for example Calle 20. Every colonia has a calle 20 (for example), so it is just different.  It's not like

SLC where the whole city has 1 universal address system, 1st east, 2nd east, 3rd east... whatev. It'd be like Harvard- yale having it's own calle 20, federal heights having it's own calle 20, foothill having it's own, sugarhouse having I'ts own... soo on. I'ts kinda dumb ha, but I guess when you figure it out, if makes sense.

So, I  was talking to an elder who leaves next week, it is his last transfer, Elder Ortiz-- oh my gosh, he is the funnest guy I have ever met.  But I was talking to him about his misson. What was crazy to me is he started his mission at the beginning of my senior year.... soo all my memories of senior year, all my memories of that summer, all the memories at the U of U and at BYU then leave on my mish, and he's still here... holy cow, that was a long time ago. I asked him if he was excited to go home and his response was kinda cool. He said, ¨yeah, I'm excited, but I'm kinda not.¨ He said, ¨I  like the missionary life—it is the easy life. All   have to do is wake up and help people.  That is all I have to do!  There are no problems --  no worries. I am gonna enjoy these last 2 weeks and if I work hard, my wife is gonna be that much cuter ;)  ¨ hahahaha. direct quote. But for real, what he said is true, all we do is just help people, it is the easy life.. I have been thinking about it lately.  Anyways, just something cool.

So, I  got a picture of my whole zone I love my zone!  Just some homies.  I was afraid I wouldn't meet a ton of gringos because I thought all my companions were going to be mexican, but I have made plenty of friends that will last after my mish.  I'm stoked.

And I am soooo excited about conference this weekend!  What I am not excited is that I have to hear it all in Spanish... I amm way disappointed. I  hope I  will be able to understand it. And hearing the voice of a translator than the real voice of the prophet will be different... oh well. It's an experience! Just like the rest of a mission is!

Well fam, aside from this stupid keyboard, it was a great week. God speed and have a good week!

cuidense! Teen Bean! - Hasta Luego, in maya ha

Love you all!
-Elder Connolly

Monday, September 19, 2011

Mexico Letter #5

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MEXICO #5!!!! ( its a good one ;) )

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OKKK FAM!

OK FIRST OFF, I heard about the Utah BYU game... (from a Mexican, no, I didn't check epsn.com or anything). I didn't even have an idea it would be this early in the season. Wow... this is a great time to be on a mission-- NBA lockout so no NBA and the game wasn't even good... I don't even care that BYU lost 54 to 10-- go Utes!  Haha!

MY FAVORITO WEEK IN THE FIELD SOOO FAR!!! I had some good things and some bad things, but you know what?- it happens sometimes!

So, wow, I' m just gonna name this email ¨TODO¨ because just about everything on a mission that can happen... happened... I think?? haha I wish I could just send my journal entries home because they are in a lot more detail and explain alot more but with this timer going up and the pesos counting up with it, I gotta keep it brief. I type my fastest! And I hope is makes sense, ha!

  • Tuesday I had an exchange, or division with our ZL, he's a Gringo and a very gooood missionary. I LOVED IT!! I wish he was my trainer because I really learned more in those 10 hours I was with him than my whole time with Chavez.... oooooh Chavez..... wow.
  • We had to drop our first investigator....and it was 3 of them.... it was tuff... but everyone has their agency, and you have to accept it. I tried!
  • We found a new guy, and he is AWESOME!! Holy Cow, his name is Orlando, he works a lot and was in Compeche this weekend, so he didn't go to church, but we hope to have him baptized in 3 weeks. 
  • this just popped into my head, my back pack is already broken!!! I dropped 130 dólares... USD dollars on that stupid peice of junk and it didn't last more than 3 months in one peice in the field....whatev, it still functions, but it's just disappointing, NEVER SHOP AT MR. MAC!! ha
  • we re-contacted a lady here, she has 7 children! and probably are the poorest people I have taught—wow!  They are alll sooo cute, and very shy kids. They have so little and their house is smaller than my room at home. They also have 7 dogs, 4 cats and chickens. It is crazy!  It really is humbling. We set a baptismal date for 3 of the kids (all the ones over 8) and the mom and they were going to come to church yesterday, but when we went to their house to pick them up to walk with them, the dad wouldn't let them go... They have so little money and he thinks all the church wants is their money. E. Chavez´s dad is a donut maker, so Chavez knows how to make all these doughnuts ha, sooo tight!  Sooo, we are making plans to teach them how to make them, and sell them to make a little more money. Who knows, might work?
  • I GOT MY FIRST BAPTISM!!!... what? haha yep, I got to put on the white pants and tie... yesterday. It was very random and I never even taught the lady, but my comp is DL so when we did the interview on Saturday, I met her and he asked who she wanted to baptism her, she said me... haha!  I was way shocked, but happy to do it. so yeah... #1 I guess! Maria del Carmen Canche Colli... I don't know her very well but I will ALWAYS remember her name! ha!

Well onto the letter. I have a few requests...

  1. Will you send Peanut Butter?? Like the biggest tub they have at Costco!  Maybe 2? haha its way expensive here, if they even have it at all...
  2. Send a pocket sized ENGLISH Book of Mormon, and Spanish, if they have it. But Imean the ones like 4 inches by 3 inches, small.
  3. Also I need the Joseph Smith video in Spanish, and a few other DVDS, it's called ¨José Smith, El Profeta de la Restauración¨. they might sale it at the distribution here, I will check and verify next week.

OK, mom, did you check up on a Costco joint membership? and Sams club? See what you can do, I might just buy one. And a SAMS Club, It is very cheap, like 33 USD bucks.

Well what else happened this week...  oh, it was the 4th of July of Mexcio last week, Sept 15... pretty lame, NOTHING like the celebration we have in America. Ha!

A missionary here just got his call to New York City, New York. 2 things:

  1. It's very rare to have a Mexican missionary leave Mexico because the cost of a mission in pesos is WAY too expensive
  2. I am kinda jealous, state side food is callin' my name!! 

And guess what? Our ward has 2 missionaries out serving right now and guess how many in the next 12 months??? 15!!! FIFTEEN missionaries, Isn't that cool?  There is a huge group of kids that age and like 5 sister missionaries a little older as well. It is so cool the majority of the girls here all serve, of the young couples I know, all the wives served. Literally everyone serves- we had the opportunity to talk to the primary again—we do that every week. This week we talked about how to prepare ha, they are only like 4 - 10, but it was cute to hear their ways they were preparing already.

So spiritual experience this week... there was a lot actually. This week was my FAVORITE week of the mission. One with Sandra Luna again, we watched the Joseph Smith movie with her whole family, and had a 20 minute lesson and testimony sharing that was awesome. but I think my favorite was with Orlando. It was awesome! The lesson was no more than 12 minutes, very short, very powerful and probably my favorite lesson. We invited the spirit with prayer-- he had a problem with baptism again because he thinks his Catholic baptism was valid as a baby. We explained 3 things..

  1. you have to have the proper Priesthood authority
  2. the choice to do it (you don't as a baby) and know what you are doing
  3. baptism by immersion, following the example of Jesus Christ.

And we used 2 Nephi 31, invited him to be baptized and he accepted! So that will be cool, I hope he follows through! This will be the first baptism we have that I was present for the whole thing-- like we found him, worked with him and see him get baptized.  All the others we have planned still were progressing before I got here. So yeah, ended with prayer and we were on our way. It was awesome how the Lord had prepared him-- he said he had been thinking a lot about his spiritual life lately and wanted to change! I hope so much!

And of course the baptism was AWESOME!!   I'll attach pics of it to this! It was E. Chavez and I and Maria and her daughter.

Funny thing, all the envelopes I brought from home are now sealed shut with nothing in them because of the humidity! haha,  I have to buy more. and mom I am sending a letter home the slow way. I am putting a tracking device on it, so you can watch it, I'll give you the tracking number next week—it's cool, it costs a little more but worth it, my comp says the letters get to where they are going with a lot higher percentage with it too.

AND GUESS WHAT!!!?? We get a laundry machine in November!!  It's the one we´ve been using in the past but the members are getting a new one and giving it to us. It really is ghetto haha, but it works and is better than hand washing, which I had to do last week..... and it took forever... the mission is just an EXPERIENCE!! and I LOVE it!! :)

The food is soooooo.... gooood?   haha no I love it, it's just different.  My stomach is getting more and more accustomed... the dumb thing is I can't get full, I honestly just can't eat anymore because it is soo fatty. So there is room in my stomach but I would throw up if I tried to eat more. It is a bummer because I am hungry like 5 hours later and we only get 1 good meal a day, and quesadillas can't keep me sustained forever... ha. I have eaten meat here that I NEVER would have touched back at home, and I never knew was even edible. Let me tell you though, it's a lot easier to eat in the dark-- if you can't see it, it goes down a little easier... and I am gaining weight still.

Well I best be going! ... peace fam! I love you all! Thanks for your letters, I had 11 emails in my inbox today!  I didn't get to all of them, I'll write back when I can! or hit you up on the Postal Service haha. Thank you so much for your prayers, love, letters and support! U Da Best!

-Elder Connolly

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Letter #4 from Mexico

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MEXICO!!!!! #4 with pics!

More¿¡Bosh Onda Familia!?
(¨¿Qué Pasa?¨ en Mayan or ¨Whats up?¨ in English... haha)

Holy Cow... where to start-- ok first off, I did have a moment of silence on Sunday morning for Sept 11... my companion didn't give respect...¨nobody cares....¨  wow... messed.  I AM PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN!!!!!

anyways, about me, this week included ALOT!! (aside from THE WORK itself)

  • I got like 7 dearelder letters last Monday night! It was awesome! And like 4 of them were written back in June and were waiting for me to get them haha. One from Kate- said like 'RICH! you made it to the MTC! Awesome! Was the first night just like Eris´s story in the white bricked room??" hahahaha it was awesome.
  • Oh, by the way, Dearelder letters to Mexico are FREE! and to answer your Q mom, they are printed off in Provo, then sent here in a box with everyone's together then distributed, and it takes 2 weeks to get them here.
  • no electricity for about 36 hours, really the only downfall was no fridge, and planning at night... other than that, it wasn't too bad
  • we got locked out of our house the whole day Sunday, my comp locked the keys in the house, and it wasn't until about 11:15pm (about an hour and half of trying) until we were able to make a device to pick the lock.... haha we should of just paid the 50 Pesos to get it opened. but it was Sunday... :)
  • the hardest thing I had to do this week was eat a rotten tomato....wow! tomatoes and onions are always the first thing I eat at meals so I can get the hard stuff out of the way first then enjoy the good stuff, welllllll I somehow got it down through my gagging without letting the member hear me, then after my comp went to eat his, he said they were rotten....and he didn't have to eat his. wowwww!! solo mi suerte.....
  • with sooo much rain, the mosquitoes are really bad, I've gotten used to about 100 new ones every day, and I'm not joking. Pray I don't get west nile or whatever they have...
  • I got 3 new ties :)
  • I GOT A NEW HAMMOCK!!!! YEAHHHHH WHOOOO!!! it´ll due for now, it's way better, not the colors and stuff I wanted, but I really don't care anymore
  • I'll be in BRISAS for 3 more transfers, so like until February or something
  • I've learned a ton of Mayan, I love it! I love the Mayan people, you can pick them out of the group really easily, they have a distinct people and their clothes are all handmade, they are awesome- like 20% of my ward is Mayan, it's awesome.


Ok mom, I transferred money from my savings to my checking, it got denied today shopping at

 

 

Walmart, I  had like a dollar in it haha. I had to use it because

  • electricity late fee bill
  • I bought more missionary badges
  • bought my hammock
  • and we take the bus too much

all adds up to about 80% of my money for the month and still have about 18 days until I get more.... soo I used my credit card- I can pay it off online banking next week, or you can do it, whichev.

OKKK onto the work!

Well it was a GREAT week this week
We´ll start at church, we had 5 people in our gospel doctrine class this week (which means that they came to church), only 2 of them were investigators, 3 less active members.

Mayra- we set a compromised baptismal date on October 3rd? I believe, so that´ll be the first baptism!


The family of 3 we´ve been teaching- I don't know what's happening with them- they haven't been very open to us teaching them this past week and made it very difficult for us to set an appointment with all sorts of excuses, but we´re still working with them. It's sad, I want them sooooo bad to come to church and be baptized!  I'm trying my best!


Orlando- we found this guy! He's cool, but we found him Saturday and actually haven't taught him yet-I  hope all goes well with him this week!


Sandra Reyes- she is the most animated little ball of energy I have ever seem!!-especially for a 32 year old woman! haha. She is crazy awesome though, she got baptized a few weeks before I got here, and is a primary teacher. We are working on her son who is 9 and boy friend hopefully- we´ll see.


Sandra Luna- She is amazing! She was baptized a week before I got here, and she is sooo strong, She´ll be the Relief Society president someday ha. She has a REALLY cool conversion story- I wish I had time to tell you all but its kinda long. Long story short, she works in Compeche, 3 hours away, every day! She works VERY HARD for her family- the definition of a Mom. And since she's hardly home, the missionaries found her husband, taught him for 1.5 months before they taught her. One time, she was home when the missionaries came, she saw them and knew the church was true, just a overwhelming feeling. She had a baby die that only lived a few hours about 4 months ago, and every night she would cry herself to sleep because she´d have dreams of it. But since she saw the missionaries, and she knows that families are eternal, she has been soooo strong. There are a lot of cool details missing, but you get the gist of it. Her husband and family aren't members, and we visit them at least 2 or 3 times a week, still working on them.

My spiritual experience: is from Sandra Luna ha!-- She is AWESOME!   So every Sunday, the missionaries (me) talk to the primary. The primary is awesome here, and they teach missionary work and going to the temple EVERY SUNDAY without fail, for the first half of the hour. They all know from the time they are 3 that serving a mission is the goal. Anyway, we walked in 3rd hour, and  the teachers asked Sandra to share her conversion story to the primary. With tears in her eyes as she told her story (the one above plus more), the spirit was sooo strong, and it actually was a testimony builder to me. I've learned that hearing peoples testimony and sharing your own strenthens your own, probably more than anything else sometimes, so anyways, it was amazing. I challenge you all to share your testimony today!

1.  I want to figure out how long it takes to get mail--compare Dear Elder with regular mail--how many letters have you gotten?  Have you received any Dear Elders?

Probably about the same, I don't know. They send the dearelders from Utah in a package, they take 2 weeks to get here, so I don't know

2.  updates on how Spanish is coming
wow It is frustrating, but it's coming along, I talked to some other gringos who have been here long.
3.  Have you been sick since that one time and do you take those Phillips tablets?
Yeah, I was sick this morning.... I'm sick alot haha..... soo its normal.
4.  THIS IS BIG:  DID YOU GET YOUR LARGER HAMMOCK?????  I HOPE SO!
YESSSS, I LOVVVVVVE ITTTTT!!!
5.  Any spiritual experiences this week? 
yeah, the one above was the best

Dave- So do you remember the Oaxaca Cheese?? haha its like THE CHEESE to buy-- in the store haha, like over half the cheese options are ¨Oaxaca Style Cheese¨ and its kinda like string cheese. It's pretty good. and I met a guy from Oaxaca, and he was the branch pres while you were on your miss I think!  President Mision Flores was your Mish Pres right? Then his name was HMO Santiago, in the Rama Mitla from 1994-97. Is that after you were there?

Speaking of Cheese, I have learned the way of the QUESADILLA haha- bought stuff for it last week and was out by like Friday! I had 15 in 3 days... so today I stocked up again ha. It is definitely gonna be the food to keep my weight, which I weighed myself at the mail yesterday, I'M GAINING!!! I'm not losing! yeahhooo! 75 KILOS!!

Speaking of food, I had my first Hamburger in Mexico, and WOW, just like American-Mex is nothing like authentic mexican food, Mex-American food is NOTHING like authentic American food. I can't wait to have a Five Guys Burger again....

I´ve learned to be ALOT bolder here, It's something I've always been bad at. I learned toooo well from Dad and Mom that contention is of the devil. I never thought any of the Connolly kids would make good lawyers and argue for a living......  :) haha. but it's something about having this Badge on that gives you power with authority to challenge people and invite them to make commitments, change their lives and come unto Christ. Just somethin´ I have notice this week.

And I heard all about Bri´s concert! Sounded awesome! I so wish I could have been there!  Mom said that it's the 2nd and LAST BIG event I´ve missed.... and wedding and this... NO MORE!!! haha just kidding,-- just be sure to send pics if i miss anymore! I can't get worse than Teej, who missed 3 weddings!

AND DANNY and 1ST PLACE IN THE MARATHON!!!  Are you kidding me!? haha wow!!! GO DAN! You are amazing! I've been running a 5k almost every morning here, first marathon when I get back, ITS ON!!! haha

Well FAM, I finally found a computer that accepts my camera, so I am sending pictures! Enjoy!

LOVE YOU ALL.   ¨¡¡Teen Be´aan!!¨ - Mayan for ¨¡Hasta Luego!¨ or ¨See ya!¨ ha

-Elder Connolly

Monday, September 5, 2011

¡Viva México! Carta # 3



¡Viva México! Carta # 3






¡HOLA FaMiLiA!

 

SOOOO today was a much more enjoyable P-day ha, wow. We actually did our laundry this week...........

 

2 things this week:

 

1- I finally learned my lesson: wear the ugly, dummie lookin' poncho... holy cow, the rains here are crazy. and i'ts on the clock, literally between 2-4 there is a 30-40 minute rain storm, and I mean like hurricane steezzz! They are soo powerful. 

2- When I knock on doors, I can't do the classic. beeep, beeep, bep, bep, beeeeeep ---------- beeeeep beeeeeeeep! You know, that classic honk mom does all the time?? In mexico, its bad, my comp got mad at me for doing it, it means something bad, I don't know what.. haha.

 

Soooo,  I thought I would actually talk about my area, Brisas. I´ve been here for 2 weeks now and still get lost in the streets ha, it's kinda confusing, and without the mountains, I don't know which way is east, north, west of south! I'm just starting to get a feel for it.

 

So Brisas is an older part of town. all the houses are cement, probably built in like the 30's or so. there are alot of older, strong catholic people in our area, and some areas, its every door we knock. It's rough ha. My ward has about 80 people in it, our chapel, or ¨capilla¨ is tiny and the most ghetto one is Merida! but it's tight, its unique, it's not the general ¨cookie cutter chapel¨ they have everywhere else. 

 

We don't have bikes because the streets aren't very bike-friendly and the drivers here are crazy. So we either have to walk or take the bus, which I hate, my companion doesn't like to walk and we take the bus everywhere at 6 pesos a trip like 10-16 times a day, which takes like half our money! haha. When I'm the Papa, or senior comp, we´re walking EVERYWHERE ha. 

 

We can't drink Coke.....and I think we are the only 2 people in Merida that don't (other than the other missionaries) ha. If Pres Salinas had the chance to write the word of wisdom, Coke would be in it. And I'm not a pop person but at every meal, the members always have coke for them and a strawberry fanta drink for us without fail... I hate that drink ha. But whatevs.  The Spanish is sooooo rough- there are on and off days with it and  it is really discouraging and super frustrating sometimes. I get so annoyed not being able to understand. Then sometimes it comes and I can understand. But for the most part, it is still hard. I'm trying something new this week, so we´ll see if it works!

 

My companion: his name is Elder Chavez, de Oaxaca. He's alright-- He's a great teacher, I wish he were a little more patient with me, but we´re chill now, it was rough for a bit. Funny thing, he wants 13 kids and want to be a dentist! He told me that before I told him about my family—weird,  huh?? He´s Dad-- is Mexican form!! But not at the same time!~ haha

 

OK the teaching, it's going good. We had 4 investigators at church this week, 3 for the first time! It's a family, 1 mom, 2 kids, 15 year old girl and 21 year old  boy, they are my favorite people to teach. I look forward to their lessons. We teach them tomorrow again and gonna hopefully we will commit them to a baptism in 2 weeks after they have been to church at least 3 times. The other, Mayra, this was her second time at church, and we have a baptismal date set for her on the 17th! but she is being weird, she doesn't want to until the beginning of Novemeber....because it's her birthday...? I don't know, that's 2 months away. So more info next week.

 

Funny story: so we were on our way to visit a 90 year man Gustavo ha, hes sooo tight. wayyyy old, he's Catholic and won't be baptized-- the missionaries have been visiting him for over a year ha, but he likes us to visit, so we sing him hymns. Anyways, on our way, a lady came out of her house and called us over. Her 15 year old son had questions about religion, and she wasn't prepared to answer them, so we made an appointment for the next day.    Turns out their family is atheist. And when we started teaching, the 15 asked ¨so, is god a man or a woman?¨  .... and ¨did Adam and Eve have a belly button?¨... haha!  it was like a joke, Chavez didn't know how to answer them cause it was the first time we´d been asked questions like that ha.  We obviously could tell he had looked up online some stuff about the Mormons, probably anti stuff, and was bringing it up. He did visit the new. www.mormon.org and stuff. anyways, Chavez said he had never had a lesson like that haha. You don't run into an athiest much in Mexico ha!

 

Q´s to answer.

 

1. What is your apartment like?

Here's a google  map link. If you go to street view, there are 3 cars, 1 the first there a silver nissan with a guy looking in his trunk or something, then there is another silver car and then a black one-- mine is the house where the black one is in front of, with the big green tree (and orange (fruit) tree! ripe in like 6 weeks, I'm stoked) and trash on the fence to the drive way gate, and white with a green strip on top.  I applaud  google, I didn't think they´d have it on street view!

 

http://maps.google.com/maps?q=20.982603,-89.588093&num=1&vpsrc=0&sll=20.985102,-89.613867&sspn=0.025122,0.062567&ie=UTF8&z=18

   

It's way tight, It's made for 4 missionaries and was last transfer, but now there is only me and Chavez. The only things are...(there's a lot actually)

  • we don't have a sink because an elder broke it.
  • our toilet... when there is no water pressure, which is a lot, especially after we shower, we have to put water in the toilet to flush it.
  • our shower, haha, it reminds me of the movie ¨Holes¨ that line that says ¨the shower´s only got one knob because there is only 1 temperature: cold!¨ haha it is cold, but it feels good. if it's a sunny day, its luke warm. Our water is in a tank up on the roof that gets heated by the sun and it uses gravity for the water pressure. But if its rainy, it's a cold shower that night.
  • It was filthy, but we actually DEEP cleaned it this morning, so its good!   awww, my comp taught me some stuff and gave me grief because he could tell I had a cleaning lady growing up... the only thing I could say is ¨they are gringas¨-- he thought they´d be Mexicans
  • its hot, we have a A-C but it takes all our energy and stuff. and its broken, i guess? i dont know, we´ve never used it. 

overall though, I really like my apartment.

 

2.  What is your compaion's name and where is he from in Mexico.  What is he like?  Is he a hard worker?

answered that somewhere else ha

3.  What is your daily schedule?  Will you usually write on Mondays?

yes, every Monday. Last p-day I was sick in the morning so I was in bed for a while then we had stuff all day and I didn't even get to do laundry.

4.  Have you taught any lessons?

yes ha, there's alot.

5.  Are you getting our letters and when do you get DEAR ELDER STUFF?

 I haven't received anything yet, but I might tonight, we get mail from the misson home every Monday night, and I didn't get any last week. we´ll see. 

 

I use the picture of our family every day at least once, sometimes more-- thanks for that.  Also, the picture of Dad and Emily at the temple and some other pictures at the temple when we talk about how at temples we can be sealed to our families, its perfect. Could you guys email me a picture of the slc temple? I need one and I can stick it on my card and print it out here. 

 

Well my new motto is from my companion after trying some of the nastiest candy I've ever had ha!  Why do Mexicans love chilly soo much, even enough to put it in their candy, or dulces? haha my new motto is , ¨YOU ARE IN MEXICO—ENJOY IT!.-- in broken English, of course! I laughed sooo hard. but I figured I might as well enjoy these candies, the humidity, bein´ a gringo, 6:30 mornings, marathon days, restless nights, dirty hands, cold showers, mom-less cooking, and even sleeping in a hammock, cause this is my life for 2 years :)

 

By the way, good news! I bought a new hammock from my bishop! I get it tonight, so I haven't tried it yet!  I hope it's more comfy.

 

Word of the day:

¡Cuídense! - which means- ¡take care!

 

Love you Fam,

 

Elder Connolly 


Sunday, September 4, 2011

Mexico Letter #2

Mi FAMILIA!

Yes, I'm alive... you can stop being worried now! haha. I know this is a day late, I'm sorry

3 most common phrases or words of the week:

1- ¿Mande? - means to command someone to repeat what they just said, cause I didn't understand
2- ¿Como se dice..........? - means ¨how do you say ............?
3- ¡¡¡Matelo!!! -- means ¨KILL IT!¨haha - we have some crazy bugs and spiders and cockroaches in our house, so we kill them on sight ha ;)

Notice of the week:
- I love tomatos! and onions! why did I not like them before....???¿¿¿ haha well when they are the only form of taste(still can't find the slash button) flavor, they are necessary. when there's not A-1 sauce or something savory to have with your meet. soooo I decided I like them :)

Ok well, my first week... it was alright. It rains here.... alot! and I mean like HARD rain. On Friday, we had the hardest rainstorm I have ever seen! I was like going crazy. Then there was another one Saturday, then another Sunday, and one last night, equally or maybe stronger each time... it is hurricane season and it's normal ha. But it really is unreal. The streets are like rivers, the plumbing sucks here, so there is like 3 foot deep water up to your knees in the streets, we have to detour alot.

Ok I have to tell you about Saturday night. Sooooo sleeping in a hammock.......its not as glorious as I thought it was. I prefered the ground last night ha, I slept on the tile dirty floor! My back and shoulders are dead! It's just because my body is wayy too tall for the hammocks they gave us and it's impossible to have a straight surface laying sideways even. and my shoulders kill! ha I need to order a big one asap, it's bad~ ha! It's not good to sleep on the floor. the thing that hammacks are sooo good for is to keep you off the ground where there are bugs, millions of ants and cochroaches...

TIME OUT- ok tell me if you knew this before. You know that mexican song ,¨a cucaracha! a cucaracha! yayayayayya.... a cucaracha, a cucaracha yayayayyay!¨???    That literally means a cockroach.... I had no idea! hahahahaha I thought it was just a cool word they made up or something.

Anyways, so on Saturday night, I  wake up at 1:30am... it happens alot, miniumum like 7 times a night I'll wake up..... but this time I was stoked! I HAD MY FIRST DREAM IN SPANISH! haha it was sooo tight! I thought it would take alot longer to have one! ha. then about 2 minutes of being happy, it hit me.... that feeling....

YEP! I spent from 1:32am until about 5:03am on the toilet... I was sick. The first time. it....was....horrible. but completely unavoidable-- there is no way to dodge ¨the runs¨ ha, for real. It was bummer! but talk about an emotion swing! 2 minutes I'm stoked then spend 4 hours on the john... wow.

and the next day, Sunday, I wake up from my restless sleep exhausted... go to church that starts at 8, but get there at 7:45, walk into the bishops office and he assigns me the first talk!... bueno... haha. I gave a great discourse about faith and my purpose as a missionary... then sat down.

Also, can you guess who is going to be the ward organist??? ....... me. Ha~~ they sing the hymns acapella cause no one can play, I'm the most qualified piano player so I'm gonna start playing, probably just the right hand ha, but whatev--- gotta practice!

Also, Dave, you told me about a pill that you can take that will help you when the runs come? Well,  a member here game me a pill and a little drink thingy to drink, both presribed medicine made in Mexico. I have the names, are they bad to take for the long run? It helped, the sickness was gone by Monday around noon.

Well,  now on to the real stuff, my investigators--we have a few. Fabiola and her mom and brother Carlos, 2 Sandras, a 90 year old guy and his wife Gustavo haha... and that's all I can think of right now. We have a few referrals to we haven't contacted yet. all are progressing, my favorite people to teach is Fabiola and her family, she is 15 and her bro 21 and her mom-- we have only taught them once, so tomorrow we are going to talk about the Book of Mormon, we did the whole first lesson up to the B of M. I'll let you know how things are going with that next week. It's fun to teach, I don't say much yet- I kinda just poke a few things in to what Elder Chavez is teaching, but it is a lot of fun. I love finding people.

My Spanish is improving wayyy well, and I am starting to understand what people are saying, it doesn't sound sooo fast anymore when they talk. I still have a long way to go. I have set a goal to be fluent enough with a accent by the time I talk to guys at Christmas, I'm gonna do it!

Mom- what are some wayyy simple snack ideas? We don't have a microwave, we do have a stove and fridge. What can I buy that is easy to make for a snack. We get fed a lot by the members but for the night and morning I need some stuff to eat. Any suggestions on what to buy?  The only thing I have bought is milk and cereal and bananas and mangos ha.

Well, I best be going, we have to go eat. We have a member feed us everyday, except P-day, for lunch. It's great—it's like our only real meal ha. I am learning to eat alot more in 1 sitting ha, I have to literally stuff myself beyond capacity. I'ts hard, but I have to last along time. My body is designed to eat smaller meals but like 6 times a day. So I'ts different.

Write me some Qs if you wanna know some stuff for next week.

Hope all is well back at home.
Oh also, there are 2 options to send mail. the pouch service, and the regular mail service.
Pouch is provided by the church as is more secure, but I think it takes like 6 weeks for me to get mail.
Regular is a little sketchy, but I was talking to some elders yesterday at district meeting and they said that regular was fine, they get packages without a problem so letters will be fine. But it does happen sometimes—don,t know how often.

pouch address:
Elder Richard Connolly
Mexico Merida Mission
P.O. Box 30150
Salt Lake City, UT  84130-0150
USA

regular address:
Misión México Mérida
Elder Richard Connolly
Calle 45 #527-Q entre 70 y 72
Col. Centro
Mérida, Yucatán, C.P.97000
México



I cant get the computer to read my memory card to send pictures home... kinda disapointed. I'll try again at another computer next week.

well Love you all, thanks for your love and support. Vaya con Dios!